sandie's Cancer Blog
Sandy's Memorial
(11/5/1957 - 3/19/2010)
 Rest in Peace by blogforacure |
by Del |
by Jill |
With love & sympathy by Terrilyn Delnick |
Rest in Peace Sandy by Martha |
by mavic |
Started following Blog for a Cure on Twitter this evening. News of Sandy's passing was the first new message I saw from them. So sorry to hear of your loss, I'm sure she's in a better place. by Chris of Arabia |
Rest in by khl8 |
R.I.P. by eagle54 |
RIP by Fellow Survivor |
by Grace |
by julie445 |
by Ed |
thank you for supporting your Mom...priceless to her! RIP Sandy by imnotcancersfriend |
RIP by gazhunter |
She is now in the arms of God no sorrow no pain. by Sherri |
by Jacques Ditte |
by Colleen |
by Eli |
Peace be with you by simplysharron |
by Kathy |
Sandy be free & painless by PAT |
God Bless by bob |
by Kathy |
God keep Sandie and still praying for a cure. by Nancy Glass |
RIP Sandie by Sharon |
by Kim |
Sandy is now with the Angels. Love, peace. Teresa by tmay |
In the arms of the Angels, rest in peace by Kelly |
You are cancer free now my friend by amy |
by Sandy |
i hope you have found a place with no pain and suffering and are with your loved ones, i love you mom more than words can say. Brandi marie. by brandi |
You will live on thru the precious memories you gave others. by Katie |
I am praying for this family. by Paula |
Her fight was not in vain. Peace is finally here by Louise |
Rest in Peace Aunt Sandy by Justin |
by Lisa |
Sandy was my older sister only by a few years. We lost connection for a few years when she lived down south. But she always made sure to send a Christmas card every year. I was very lucky to be able to spend time with her not only in October but a few by Laura |
rest in peace mom i love you very much you were the best mom and grandma anyone could ask for.i love you and miss you very much by laurali |
R.I.P Sandie by Berta |
by Shiana |
Rest in Peace Sandie by Fallene |
by spirestudios |
RIP by Kevin |
by KT |
May you walk with God in love & light by Sonia |
God bless you and your family. by debby |
Rest in peace by andyatFAD |
x by Mark |
by Sue |
Rest In Peace by aysha |
Sorry for your loss. by PT7 |
Many prayers for your family. I love you guys. by Jessica Ann |
Prayiing for you and your family. by Kimbo |
My thoughts and prayers are with you I wish I by Jessica Naser |
Rest In Peace. by Chelsey |
My love, thoughts and prayers are with you all. by Joyce |
Rest in Peace, Sandy. by Jill |
by Nancy |
Much love and prayers for you and yours by Larissa |
I Love You More Than Life by sandy |
by Valerie |
by Justin Brooks |
by Catherine |
My God rest her soul. by Donnie |
by Kim G. |
by ~B~ |
July 8, 2010
its probablly not a good thing for your husband to get home from work after being gone working for 14 hours, to find his wife curled in a ball on the floor in the bedroom holding on to pictures of her mom and sobbing uncontrolablly. thank god he just ” gets ” it. anyone else would think ive gone mad im sure. im just so sad though. i find myself wondering if momma is sad too wherever she is? then i think she must be, we were all so close she has to miss us just as much. then it makes me feel even sadder thinking she is cring and missing us from wherever she is….sometimes i just wish we could all join her. so we can be together again. i hate cancer….i hate it for taking my mom from me i hate it for what it has done to so many peoples lives….the heartache it causes everyone who is surrounded by it. i hope this finds everyone having the best day they can.
Brandi
I just want to send you love and prayers…you will be angry and feel pain and feel despair and feel like no one understands and feel support and feel alone and feel loved and feel…. it’s a roller coaster. As long as you’re not numb and pretend everything is fine, you’re gonna be okay. Just feel. I know that there is no other person that can replace your mom and she is with you every moment, loving you. I know you must feel that love from her. It will be 10 months on Saturday since cancer stole my mom…be strong.
Lots and lots of love…
Alyssa
Posted on Oh, sweetie, I’m so sorry for what you are going through. I’m glad to hear your husband is so understanding. That’s a great thing. I’m sending hugs from my heart to help sustain you through this difficult time.
Peace,
Kathy
Posted on I am giving you a big cyber hug right now. So glad you have such a wonderful husband. much love coming your way.
Posted on Brandi-
I hate cancer too. I hate that there have to be memorial sites like your mom’s and I hate that I am searching them to see what my mom’s will look like when the time comes. Please know that you are not the only one balled up on the floor crying for her mom.
Posted on June 23, 2010
mommas been gone for 95 days now, i miss her so much i cant breathe right sometimes when i think of her. they have put me on some medications to help with the hyperventilating panic attacks ive been having since shes been gone. i know in my heart she is cancer free and pain free, and with loved ones who have passed, but i miss picking up the phone and talking to my best friend for a couple hours and laughing, i miss driving to her house and spending my days with her, i even miss taking her to her dr. appointments and chemo. she was truly my best friend, my momma, my heart and sole i love her soo much and i miss her more than words could ever say…thanks for listening, i read all of your posts everyday, sometimes 3 or 4 times a day…..i pray everynight for a miracle to end this horrible disease, praying for the suffering for all of yous to end….take care
Brandi
just so sad, when will the heartache ease?, 
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Hang in there Brandi. We are thinking of you and your mom. Sending you tons of love and support!
Brandi, I lost my Mom in 1981 to cancer. I can honestly say the heartache never really leaves. But I take solace knowing that she is not suffering anymore, and that she is in a better place.
Posted on Brandi, The first anniversary is in a matter of days since I lost my mum…I have cried most of the day, but also am glad she is no longer suffering.
Brandi,
I lost my (like) mother this past January. Ironically the same week I had rectal cancer :( The loss is still so strong.
Just know in your heart that your momma will always be with you wherever you go.
Carry on her memory – remember all the good times, keep loving her – as she (as for my like mother) ....will always be part of us.
Love,
Michelle
Posted on Brandi,
We always need our parents, no matter how old we are. My mom passed away 5.5 years ago and I will always miss her. She died of complications from Parkinson’s—a horrible, degenerative disease. I think of her especially when I am going to sleep. But I also know that she wanted me to go on, and I am sure that your mom also wanted you to live a good life. This does not mean that you ever will forget your mom. On the contrary, it means that you can build your life in her memory, and in appreciation of what a wonderful woman and mother she was. It’s not easy, and there certainly is no time limit for mourning. But it might help to get some grief counseling. Again, this is not to forget your mom, but to enable you to focus your grief and move in a direction that will be positive.Your mom loved you, and mothers don’t want their children to be miserable.
Hang in there,Brandi, and stay in touch with us.
Andrea
Posted on Hey pumpkin!
I apologize for the greeting but when I see your posts, I feel like I’m talking to my girl kinda. Hope you don’t mind.
I just wish I had some wise words for you sweetheart. I now, when having mundane conversations with Maggie, think constantly about the time when I’ll not be there for her. Tonight we were watching some stupid bride show and she said something about how much fun it will be planning her wedding. I’ll not be here will I?
I know for you there are moments, big and insignificant, that you want to share with your mom every day. It must be so very hard for you and probably catches you off guard. I know its not just the big moments but the daily little ones that make it all so hard.
Damn how I HATE CANCER! It has to be the devil on earth. It just kills and kills and doesn’t care what destruction it leaves in its path.
I didn’t get to know you mom real well but she came across to me as one tough cookie when it came down to loving and fighting for those she loved. You know how much she loved you! And you know she loves you still. Unfortunately, you have no choice but to go on, for your family and for yourself. I’m glad you have taken things in hand and gotten some medicine to handle the depression.
My hope for you is though you will always miss your mom, that someday, you’ll be able to think of her and smile.
Hang in there and know we are here for you!
Hugs
Teresa
Posted on 
Thanks for your support - 
